Showing posts with label mom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mom. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

My Mom's Dress

I got my mom's dress from my sister on Friday, I've been trying to decide how to incorporate it? Wear it? After messing with it last night, I think I can go from this.....

http://inlinethumb26.webshots.com/45273/2811821720050159285S600x600Q85.jpg

to this....

http://inlinethumb63.webshots.com/43198/2871141870050159285S600x600Q85.jpg

I don't want Jeremy to see it, that's why I am not posting pictures here


Saturday, April 11, 2009

WWYD????? HELP!

Jeremy and I had lunch with my sister yesterday... it was so good to see her. She brought me our moms wedding dress, when we got home last night, I had to take it out and try it on. I had not seen it since I was a little girl playing dress up. It fits perfect.... and by perfect I mean, the arms are a tad tight, but otherwise perfect... as in, it doesn't even need hemming. Just a good dry clean, and it will be awesome.... even though it's totally not my style.

Would you scrap the dress you bought and love to wear you're moms?

Remember, I am changing anyway for the reception....

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Sure, it's a good day to cry....

Melanie and I were emailing this morning about honoring loved ones that have passed away at weddings.... she asked if I planned on doing anything for my mom. I said no, it's a happy day, and I don't really want a reminder that she's not there.

Then she sent me this email....

Yeah I totally understand. I know your mom would have had a BLAST helping you plan the wedding. So, I totally get it.

Speaking of that, my dad told me the sweetest story last time I was home. It was a bit random but very sweet. Here’s a warning for you – it may make you tear up (or maybe that’s just me J). I was telling him about your wedding and how beautiful its going to be he all of the sudden said “I had a flower to give to her but it’s gone now.” I was like “Um, what are you talking about Dad???” He then told me that on the day of your mom’s funeral, as they were pushing the casket out of the sanctuary on the way to the graveside, my Dad was the last one in the building after the service. He was walking through turning off lights and what not and he found a pink long-stem rose laying on the floor where the casket had been pushed out. He assumed it must have fallen off the rose spray on top. He picked it up and immediately thought of you. He said it was almost like he was suppose to find it. He said he went and hung it upside down in a closet in the church where nobody would find it and he said eventually he would give it to you…and tell you the story. He would check on it from time to time to make sure it was still there. After about 9 months, they got a new janitor and when my dad went to check on it, it was gone. So, he never got a chance to give it back to you. But I thought it was such a sweet sentiment. I got a little teary eyed when he told me. But I thought you should know that if it had been left alone, I wouldn’t put it past my dad to have made the trip to the wedding just to give it to you. He really felt like the rose was meant for you. And he was meant to find it and give it to you eventually.


Maybe a single pink rose at the wedding wouldn't be so bad.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

How Adorable is My Mom?!

For those of you who don't know me personally, I lost my Mom when I was 17. She was my best friend. I hate that she will not physically be there on our big day.

Right after we got engaged, we went to see my sister and her family to show off my bling.... we then proceeded to get out our parents wedding album and look through it. I'd seen it a hundred times, but now had a different perspective, being a bride-to-be.

I'm not sure if it was very common to have a get-a-way outfit in 1969, but in any case, my Mom wore the cutest little blue suit. We won't be doing a grand exit because we're staying at our location, along with some of our guests and wedding party, so I will not be wearing a get-a-way outfit.

BUT... since we have decided to do a "day after" wedding shoot, I think I might try and tackle the project of making a replica of my moms suit for some of the photos. Anyone have advice on sewing a fitted jacket??? It's going to be a pain!

Check out my cute parents on their big day!

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